THIS BLOG IS EXCLUSIVELY FOR KHJ FANS ONLY
It has been the objective of this blog site to give space that can be called home to KHJ fans, to protect and to defend Kim Hyun Joong at all cost. I think I have followed these objectives ever since I started writing all about Kim Hyun Joong. These past days I have been attacking those who have badly hurt him namely, the media, KeyEast, haters fan club and lastly Miss A who had been the root of this nightmare.
I wrote that letter to Miss A and it shall be floating within the internet, whether or not it reach her, I just know someone has to question her actions and admit to her lies. I just couldn’t let go without a word directly address to her. Kim Hyun Joong has been a part of our lives for so many years and he’s like a family member to us that we cannot neglect. If a family member was being mistreated or disrespect, that I think we have a human obligation to protect, defend and seek justice.
That scandal is no longer Hyun Joong’s privacy since this issue is already in the public knowledge. I know this scandal will die down sooner or later, and maybe someday that woman will stumble upon that letter, as she knows what to do by then as she matures and realize what she had done, I hope. I may be attacking people who have hurt Hyun Joong not to revenge but simply letting them know where they went wrong and for us fans just to scream ouch!!. I just think and feel something was not right during the entire period of the nightmare.
In this nightmare, it was fighting against all odds that made me even proud of KHJ fans that the haters didn’t realize that those odds made us even stronger to unite in our only ONE LOVE. I have only one Kim Hyun Joong to believe and trust, all through out the nightmare and shall always be confident in defending him from those who hurt him.
They said in anything that happens in our daily lives good or bad has a reason. And in this nightmare I found a lot of reasons why it was bound to happen but basically I think this nightmare is an eye opener both to Kim Hyun Joong and his fans. He has been maintaining a clean image for the last 9 years of his career, who would think that in just one day, one damn person, in one glimpse his image was tainted? This is at the dark side and of course it’s Hyun Joong who was very much affected. The bright side is, we now realize who are being true and who are not.
A bad friend is a weather friend, someone who would only be there with you on bright sunny days. A true friend is there for you on the darkest moments of your life. During this nightmare I think Hyun Joong had already identified who his true friends are. In his fans some may have jump ship, and change of heart, let go of them it’s their right to choose. It’s not Hyun Joong’s lost, it their lost. For me I would rather have a few handful stable and firm people around him that makes a stronger foundation, than a crowd made of sand who can easily be swayed and fall out.
At this point I think Hyun Joong has built a better foundation in his fan base now consisting of stronger, firm and loyal fans who stayed all through out the nightmare. I wouldn’t say the nightmare has no effect, it did and it somehow damaged his image in the public eye who doesn’t know him at all and those who jumped in to judgement. But I won’t waste my time with these people. The truth has its own way of revealing by itself.
It doesn’t matter who leaves, but it matters most who stays. This nightmare is a great trial between idol and his fans. Between Hyun Joong and his loyal fans for over a month this was a real mental and emotional torture that we may have been in such crucial period probably even until now. BUT it is that same pain we felt from this nightmare that brought all of us fans to unite in ONE LOVE to Kim Hyun Joong.
FORGIVE AND FORGET??
To forgive and to forget are the most difficult for us to do. How can we forgive if the people who hurts us isn’t even seeking for forgiveness? How can we forget if we all know there is injustice in this nightmare? All the while I thought it would be easy, but as I wrote those articles one by one attacking those people who caused this pain on Hyun Joong, I realize it’s not that easy to forgive and to forget. It even hurts me more that the most affected person here was the one who humbly apologized just to end up the mess.
Probably it would be best for me not to encourage you to forgive and forget, this is gonna be your own disposition and let time heals. Instead I would encourage everyone to stay strong with Kim Hyun Joong. We move on slowly, life has to go on, leave those haters they are hopeless parasites who cling to the lies of that woman anyway. I know Hyun Joong wanted us not to put blame on that woman. May I just say this to Hyun Joong…
Kiddo, please try to understand your fans too, this matter now is between women!
Time heals pain, but the scar remains and that scar will always remind us of our awareness and lessons learned out of the pain from this nightmare.
Painful it may be but I’m thankful for this trial that I have known my idol much better and that I have known for myself of ONE LOVE but the strongest I have ever felt for a person I truly admire, Kim Hyun Joong…
LazerKim here writing
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