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By: LazerKim I have posted my article CLOSED BOOK as I have mentioned we close that chapter of Kim Hyun Joong’s life story and we start moving on. I think I had enough pouring out my anger and start moving on to the next step on how we fans can lift Hyun Joong from where he is now.
For me, moving on is forgiving which I’m now in that process, but not forgetting, and doing something in setting the record straight for the future pertaining the case of Kim Hyun Joong from how it started and how it ended. Hyun Joong’s name was tainted and, I just can’t sit and let that dirt on his name stays while people had misjudged him in the wrong way.
ROUGH TO SMOOTH SAILING
During that scandal noise, all news were the same that I should say until the last news issued, the truth was concealed by media, except one item from ONSEN, which I have posted in my recent article and I would like to thank one fan @isanglahi, who shared this news, I owe you one, that I can start from this item to dissect the entire nightmare.
Some fans started to post Hyun Joong’s concert memories, that’s good, keep it up because it helps in healing hearts. I understand that I can only watch those media and “haters fan club” do their thing that I said to myself when the sea finally calm down, should be the right time to sail. And that could be the right time to speak when everyone had gone tired of talking.
I’ll still be writing a case review in my own little way God knows how since I’m not a lawyer and hoping I would be able gather all relevant information and be back to this blog with my next article in the coming days. I just think I have to do this before I can write about sweet memories! I can’t write something refreshing if I myself as a simple fan writer still has a bothered mind about the case. I still have to release the truth about reality before I can reminisce memories.
I’m trying to understand the showbiz society in South Korea and how it differs from other countries. I didn’t do any research or home work, I just simply observe and write my mind out. One observation on line, yesterday I was reading from the hater’s camp and I have noticed the same people seem to be commenting from those sites!! This is one reason why I said the hater’s do have fan clubs too!
About media, in some countries, somehow two sides of a story in any crime or controversial issues are published and there goes the public opinion. But at least hearing two sides of the coin were given opportunity to be out there, so the public have the chance to weigh both sides through the balanced reporting of any issues by media.
The current trend now is the on-line news which I think is one powerful tool in either making or breaking an image of a celeb or a high profile personality including politician. It depends now on the readers how they take the news being delivered by the media. The SK showbiz news are getting popular in the international arena, why? Because they are so good in “making” controversial news and sensationalize the issue.
And when those controversial news are out, everyone follows leaning only on one side of the story. Some Koreans are very fond of controversial news, gossips, from the tabloids. And no matter how much one can inject on the the other side of the story, Koreans just do NOT simply read the TRUTH, and that’s really sad and scary. Do I have a wrong impression? This is just my opinion.
HIS DREAMS BACK HOME
Unfortunately this is the world where Kim Hyun Joong exist in reality. How I wish I can pull him out there, that now I felt as if he’s no longer welcome in his own home country! How I wish to snatch him away and bring him to a country where he can find peace. How I wish to bring him to the real desert and just perform a concert there with just a simple guitar and let his fans sit on the sand to listen to his music!
But NO, because I wouldn’t take him away from what he loves to do and that is his music. He has to stay in his home country to be able to accomplish his dreams. The next episode of his life may be like fighting with the giants in fulfilling his remaining dreams.
Back in 2010, as he decided to change artist category from Kpop idol to solo artist, he did fight for that battle too in proving himself and he succeeded tremendously. This time it may be in different situation and much challenging on his part but I still believe and never doubted he will again succeed.
Whatever obstacle he had gone through is just a way for him to be stronger than ever. It’s just like gold, in producing and refining its quality, it has to pass on a high heat temperature before it can reach its highest quality. Same as Hyun Joong’s destiny, he is bound to be where he is to face more challenges and trials in life to be able to reach the ultimate heights of success that has a stronger foundation and lasting star status.
Kim Hyun Joong is a very realistic type of person in spite of his dreams still exists within him, he humbly accepts whatever destiny is there to give him BUT he doesn’t easily give up on his dreams. At this moment, he may just be sitting around in silence but his mind is all along working and suddenly idea pops out, and gets him busy working on those ideas. This is how he works in his most practical way. And believe me he applies the same in fulfilling his dreams for the future.
Everyone is entitled for a second chance and that’s a human right.
May I just share, I’m not a religious person, but I am a strong spiritual believer. Every time I stumble down on the ground, the first thing I ask myself is this “Have I forgotten God? Have I neglected my prayers?” And for some reasons, I get idle, so I don’t wait for an answer I just go ahead and talk to Him in my prayers.
Sometimes we are overwhelm with our daily achievements, sometimes we’re overwhelm with success and fame that a lot of times we forget to thank God for the blessings. I do believe in this, He finds way to pinch me as if saying “Hey LK you have forgotten Me.” Or whenever we face our trial that sometimes it felt hopeless, there’s only one thing He wants us to do, and that is to go to Him and ask for help.
God is also an attention seeker, believe me!! “So Hyun Joong, go to Him, He’ll help you in moving on peacefully……….He’s waiting for you Rafael!”
LazerKim here writing
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