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By: LazerKim I’m writing this article just to put on record about the case and its closure since I have been writing all about Kim Hyun Joong and this is a part of his story. At this point what I would like to emphasize is the damage done by that woman and media in destroying the career life of a man who is very important to all of us. At the same time I would like to do this for the sake of the new fans whom I would say may be confused or in doubt.
Last night someone posted a news report which at first I ignored since after the post a hater came in, so I was thinking the news came from the hater’s camp, my apology to whoever posted this news if I may appear a bit careless since I was really tired and sleepy! As you may read this news it specifically stated the pictures posted by media were particularly noted which allegedly resulted from the assault that woman accused of Kim Hyun Joong. Just in case you haven’t read here’s the news as follows:
Police “Kim Hyun Joong Girlfriend, sue will take the investigation concluded
According to the news portal OSEN that followed this case (Oh Asia disagree on how leaked information) in the last three days has confirmed that the singer and actor 김현중 (Kim Hyun Joong), which was denounced by his ex girlfriend alleged violence has been withdrawn.
An officer of the police station in Seoul Songpa has commented: Today September 17 at 4 pm Miss A has withdrawn the complaint against Kim Hyun Joong, because the doctor did not find credible and conclusive evidence about the alleged physical violence reported by Miss A. [Not proven shock seen in the photos have been made by the artists that is not signed by a legal physician] Because the complainant claimed to have been beaten more than once since 2012 for which conducted the complaint on August 20 on charges of physical violence.
This news was announced on August 22 by the press. [Information was illegally leaked by the press] Hyun Joong .kim and Miss A had their own version of events. During this time the artist has twice visited the police station and Seoul Songpa where he was questioned by police.
On September 15, Kim Hyun Joong on his official website, he sent a note of apology in which story that happened during the 2 year relationship he had with Miss A to once loved. He apologized for causing pain and mental anguish. [Not confirmed that the hit and fractured ribs]
The lawyer Seo Eun Choi Miss commented: Kim Hyun Joong has presented a public apology on its official website with what has demonstrated his sincere repentance, so we decided not to pursue a complaint and to proceed with the lawsuit, concluding that their customer just wanted a sincere apology.
Credits: Oh osen.co.kr & Asia Magazine
By Oh Asia Magazine
I would like to emphasize three points in this news as follows:
1. [Not proven shock seen in the photos have been made by the artists that is not signed by a legal physician] – because the doctor did not find credible and conclusive evidence about the alleged physical violence reported by Miss A.
2. [Information was illegally leaked by the press] This news was announced on August 22 by the press
3. [Not confirmed that the hit and fractured ribs] He apologized for causing pain and mental anguish.
I hope this is clear enough coming from this news item that everything in this scandal was all made up! The only truth here is that Hyun Joong and that woman had a mutual fight as Hyun Joong was breaking up their relationship BUT there’s no assault as the media sensationalized for three long weeks that brought Hyun Joong, his fans, and family in such turmoil.
My point is this, the pictures and sensationalized news posted by the media made the public believed that Hyun Joong is a woman beater, and that’s too painful to him to be accused and misjudged as such. Therefore there’s no ground to file for a lawsuit against Kim Hyun Joong, everything is just for publicity purpose in destroying a celeb!
Recently Hyun Joong submitted a letter of apology just to put an end to this roller coaster, and for me that woman has no choice but to accept since her complaint is not valid enough to file for charges.
Note: Hyun Joong’s first and second statement to the police remained consistently true to himself, first that he just dated with that woman for a few months nothing serious, second that the fight was mutual and that Hyun Joong never said he hit that woman, as what was reported by media twist. And that we all understand as to why he has to lie on that letter of apology, as demanded by the other party, that woman.
Again, please do allow me to air out my thoughts and feelings. Yesterday that woman released a statement that she would just like Kim Hyun Joong to publicly apologize for what he had done to her. What had Hyun Joong done to deserve this humiliation? Well, he’s guilty of breaking her heart period and NOT breaking her ribs as she accused Hyun Joong’s doing! And until now I still believe that fight was self defense on Hyun Joong and that woman to further hurt herself. Just my opinion.
Then this is all personal private matter, why bring it to the public? To seek Hyun Joong’s attention? Can’t she do it by phone call in private and simply say “Hey Hyun Joong can you apologize for breaking up with me!?!” My God!
I think this woman really needs help and I really hope she’ll be brought somewhere for cure! My apology if I may be harsh, but why bring up those lies to the point of destroying a man’s career life if it’s simple apology that she needs? I’m sorry but who started all of these scandal to begin with? I really find this weird! Nevertheless, it’s over and done the damage has been made and we can’t take back the past.
How I wish I can sue this woman for giving me sleepless nights, stress, mental torture, and whatever emotional pain she has brought me. Well I’m just speaking my heart out. And I really hope she would realize what she has done not only to Kim Hyun Joong his family, the agency and most of all to his millions of fans all over the world. In fact she owe the whole world an apology for creating this mess! And not Hyun Joong!
And may I just say my thoughts, if Hyun Joong did not write that letter of apology and went through with the case (if there is) I knew it, he can win this case, and reverse it, file for counter charge libel, defamation, slander, even perjury (producing fake evidence) whatever legal lawsuit for what she and the media has done. Well I’m not a lawyer but…..How I wish!
This is not about revenge (I’m not a vengeful person) but just as to teach these people some lessons otherwise, this can happen again to other celebs. I don’t mean to pinpoint on majority but with this incident it somehow gave me the impression how scary some Korean women are! I really think something has to be done here. The media were the only ones who gained here, and Hyun Joong may be the losing end. But I won’t allow it!
And for those haters who just came in to my blog “Simply Defending” without respect and called me monster because I was defending Kim Hyun Joong, I knew it, you would eat your own words in the end! Now you’re even doubting that woman’s motive and personality whom you defended and call Hyun Joong a woman beater and his fans delusional? Is this fair treatment by human being to another human being?
And this really hurts us, but for weeks we endured with how those haters crucified Hyun Joong and his fans because we simply will not STOOP DOWN to the hater’s level. I really hope this brought all of us a good lesson. Don’t jump to conclusion and don’t judge right at once without due process specially about crimes. Not all defendants are guilty, let’s not forget this.
APPEAL TO FANS
At this point may I appeal to KHJ fans to ignore those haters, they will die as haters and we can’t do anything about them but avoid them, if you may, I think it would be better not to comment on those sites. And please let’s stop searching for that woman, she has her own destiny and definitely it’s not coming from us fans. In fact her destiny has started as people started doubting her motive in this scandal. The truth will be revealed from her own mouth, believe me!
And for those fans who jump ship, go and jump no one is controlling you, but please jump in silence. I respect your decision to leave Hyun Joong BUT let’s be mutual here and respect my decision to stay with him. There’s no point of criticizing the loyal ones because no matter what you do we will stay with him.
For those loyal fans who may doubt Kim Hyun Joong as having speculation that he’s going back to that woman, Hyun Joong is a very smart man let’s not underestimate him. He will NEVER go back to that woman who destroyed him, he’s not dumb and we know that for a fact. I hope we can have some reality check before having such thoughts as we have known him for years. TRUST HIM.
I can only speak for myself but I sincerely hope this is gonna be the last drop of tears that I will shed for being misjudged and take the cruelty of indecent human being, the haters. Hyun Joong doesn’t deserve to be called names such as woman beater because he’s not and there’s NO EVIDENCE except the fake ones to show he is, to begin with. He doesn’t deserve to be treated the way those haters treat him.
And I don’t deserve treatment by the haters to be called “monster”, I’m just a simple human who admires my idol, but I believe I’m decent enough to be here as a Kim Hyun Joong fan. My regular readers knows me to be always proper with my words but you haters taught me how to be rude to you, and you can’t blame me. I once welcomed you haters in this place I call home but you attempted to ruin it, Shame on you! I hope it’s clear to you now that I will definitely SHOOT you if you ever come near this blog again. I rest my case.
We forgive wrong doings but we make sure they are being told of what they have done to give them the opportunity to realize and have a room to change that the wrong doing may not be repeated again. But we do not forget what was done to us that we can learn to be aware.
After venting out our remaining pain that has been in our heart, I sincerely hope we can start moving on. I know this is an aftermath repercussion which is very natural and I fully understand the feeling because I’m currently experiencing it, that’s why I’m here bursting out this pain for once and for all in this article and put a definite stop on talks about this scandal. I hope! At the same time for those new fans who may be in confusion, I hope this article can somehow help for enlightenment.
As I have vent out my pains, I’m hoping this will be the last as I close book this episode of Hyun Joong’s career life and look forward to his renewed life as an artist. I think it’s not his life to be renewed since he did nothing wrong in that scandal, so I would say a brand new Kim Hyun Joong as an artist with his new music and dramas in the near future. I leave his personal privacy that I hope this will be the first and last time for me to write about it, in defense. I think now you can understand as to why I don’t entertain gossips and rumors about pairing him up with other female celeb in this blog, this is one reason.
I believe Hyun Joong fans are the most lovable fans in the fandom on earth ever existed that I’m proud to be one of you. Kim Hyun Joong is such a very lucky star to have all of you beside him through good times and bad times till the end.
We close this book with a smile on our lips and be proud that one time in Hyun Joong’s life in the dark, we were with him all the way till the end, and still we’re at his side as we see the light ahead of him even shining brightly…..
As we start a new episode in a new book still with our ONLY ONE Kim Hyun Joong…
LazerKim here writing
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Photo credits as tagged: Thanks Ms. D